Regina king dating outside of your race
Unfortunately black women have the smallest pool to choose from.
We are naturally attracted to black men but the majority of black men now and days marry outside of their race.
We should also be able to get exactly what we want.
If that happens to be a strong, successful black man, so be it. If we truly believe we can and do deserve the very best, that is what will come to us.
But it is also important to be open to anything life may have to offer. Life is about taking chances and enjoying whatever challenges and changes may come our way.
If a good looking white guy comes up to you and is interested in you, don’t be so quick to judge or feel you may not measure up in his eyes.
At least then he feels as if he has something in common with her.
Below are the 5 top reasons black women are apprehensive about going there with a white guy. Body image Black women are known to be naturally curvaceous. Thinner is usually all around better within the white community.
We are praised for our assests by the black men who love us. In the white community this has been the complete opposite. This is naturally engrained in both African American and Caucasian people’s subconscious.
Because the black community doesn’t have as many advantages this leaves desirable black women to a minimum. They are never approached by white men We as black women are constantly criticized for being the ones not open to dating outside of our race but what happens if white men just do not approach us?
When I surveyed these women, 4 out of the 6 said they were never even approached by a white guy.
Chris Rock made the movie “Good Hair” that touched on many areas of what black women go through regarding their hair. Sure most black men hate weaves but the women I surveyed expressed how a black man would understand more because he was raised by a black woman.